Swingers Resource
 
 SwingerDateClub Zone
 
Welcome to SwingersDateClub, the most sizzling online erotic personals directory in the world. Why erotic? Because unlike other matchmaking sites for singles, the personal ads on this site are mostly married or committed couples looking for dating experiences together. And that’s not all… most of the women in this community, both single and married, are bisexual, and ready to meet up with other women to explore ladies’ encounters and all-girl orgies.
Ever watched an adult movie and said, “Gee, I’d really like to try group sex”? Ever heard the stories of rock stars and endless hotel nights and said, “Damn, how do I get to go to parties like that?” Have you been married for 15 years and the spark in your sex life feels more like a book of wet matchsticks?
Of course you love your spouse, but did you ever just once wish you could enjoy freedom from the lifelong monogamy? Or is that monotony? Is it getting more and more difficult to tell the difference?
Get out of the rut and into the groove with SwingersDateClub. You’ve just found the place to not only explore all those fantasies and more, but start LIVING them. From mild voyeurism to off the chart wife-swapping, this site picks up where sex-ed left off. With all the hot action inside, you’re not in Kansas anymore – but even if you were, there would be swingers there waiting to meet you too.
Think of the possibilities. The endless combinations. Take your spouse to bed with another couple, or another woman. Imagine being pleased by several women at the same time. Imagine how you could feel if all of your erogenous zones were being caressed, licked, nibbled, and massaged at the same time…or maybe just a few. Imagine waking up with eight people in your bed, all smiling from the prior night’s wicked debauchery. Imagine your wife donning a strap-on dildo and fucking your secretary while she sucks your cock. And that’s just at home.Imagine a nightclub where women walk around naked… with rooms in where people can get away and frolic, just like the XXX movies you’ve seen. Imagine a room in that club holding no less than 30 people, all deliciously entwined in an orgy for the ages. Could you see yourself there? Watching it? Participating near it? In it?

At SwingersDateClub, there are over 100,000 active members, all into erotic play of some kind or another. There are mentions of not only that fantasy club we just talked about, but hundreds of them! Women and men everywhere that march to their own tune – that enjoy sex for sex’s sake, and reject completely what they’re taught is the “correct” way to enjoy sex as an adult. Did you know that there are over two-and-a-half million swingers in the USA alone? Did you know that there are even more in Europe? These deliciously sexy people do all the erotic things that until now you’ve only seen in movies, and they’re just like you. And they’re waiting for you, right now.
 
 Swinger Personals
The personal profile is your swingers ad, and the heart and soul of a swingers' lifestyle site. Did you know that there are over 100,000 active member profiles at SwingersDateClub ? As a full member, you can see them ALL! It's where you find out a) what everybody's about and b) what you'd like to tell them. If you read a few profiles before filling out yours, you'll see that there's no reason to be timid in telling the community exactly why you're here. You'll see pictures of clothes, no clothes, and hardcore group action. You'll hear of fantasies of the people in those pictures spelled out in detail straight to you – and you can email them from your private e-mailbox!
While you’re putting together your list of fantasies and trying not to forget that one about the catholic schoolgirls, the librarians and the chocolate pudding, don’t forget to select a few photos for your ad. Why photos? Well, think about it ~ Do you want to hook up with people you’ve never seen?
Nobody likes a blind date, so get some pictures – from mild to wild! Each profile can hold up to 48 pictures, so throw in a bunch ~ plus, now you have the perfect excuse to do that kinky photo shoot you keep teasing your wife about (Oh, and if you’ve never been photographed getting a blowjob, you’re in for a real treat).
At SwingersDateClub, you can also add a video clip and a voice recording to your profile… and you can listen and watch from other profiles too! Want to see potential playmates show you just how they like being kissed, fondled, and taken to bliss? Those clips of your neighbors are there, so why aren’t you?
So what are you into? Are you finally ready for that threesome? Want to watch your wife rolling around in lust with another woman while you watch? While you play? Want to fuck where people can watch you? Join you? Do you want to be friends and lovers? Maybe get daring and adventurous with some “strangers in the night”? Don’t apologize, and don’t hold back because people are going to want to meet you based on what you desire.
 
 Swinger Clubs
Did you know that there are over 500 swing clubs in North America alone? And these clubs are nothing like the sports bars and dance clubs you’ve been to. At swing clubs, people can get as naughty as they wanna be because swing clubs are private and members only. So when the women are getting naked with each other on the dance floor and there’s a threesome on the couch in the corner, you know you’ve arrived. All that and most serve food too, but we know you don’t care about all that… you just want the party!
Well you’re in the right place. In SwingersDateClub, there are club listings, party announcements, reviews of swing clubs by actual members, and special club discount offers just for you! Breathe some life back into your nightlife, and get ready for a club experience that will spoil you forever.
As you can imagine, most swing clubs don’t advertise on your favorite radio station. So might it surprise you to know that there’s probably a swing club near you right now?
Hell, by me there are four! They’re everywhere, and now you can find them right here. By the way, a great icebreaker at a swing club is always, “Hey, we’ve seen your profile on SwingersDateClub, and you two are HOT!” Oh, and don’t be surprised when you hear it said to you too.
 
 Swinger Lifestyle

The swingers' lifestyle is as varied and diverse as jazz. Some couples are completely happy just to go to a stripclub together and whisper fantasies in each other's ears while they watch the mesmerizing dancers. Others live very ordinary lives except on weekends, when they go to swingers' clubs or house parties, or just have some friends over. And some actually have homes that have 3 or more polyamorous people living in a multi-person relationship, full time!

There are levels of involvement everywhere and in between, and your sexual limits can be as unique as you are – maybe you and your spouse want a hot bisexual female for a long hot tub evening, music and wine and all the steam that comes with it (whew!)…

Maybe you want to exchange spouses with that new couple you met for a delicious session of multi-person hot fudge sundae. Whatever the involvement you choose, you'll need a place where you can stay in touch with the lifestyle and its sexy patrons – a resource, if you will. Well that resource is now yours - right here, at SwingersDateClub .
 
 Sex Dating
You have to admit it's damn hard to walk up to a woman or couple on the street and say, “Wow, you guys are really cute, wanna get naked with us and roll around?”
Truth is, before the Internet blew the lifestyle wide open, the only way to search for other swingers was to go to an adult magazine store and get a black and white local's directory magazine. Not to sound rude, but these absolutely sucked. There was only one picture allowed ~ a blurry one. You had to not only describe yourselves but also what you're looking for in a two-inch box. Worst of all, those same fucked up rags were the only place to find out where the parties and clubs were. It truly was the dark ages of swinging.
Fast Forward – at SwingersDateClub , you write your profile – take up as much space as you like, we've got plenty. One picture? Try 48 full-color and uncensored photos, and that's not counting the private photo album of extra pictures you can keep online to share with other couples and ladies. Post a voice greeting. Post a video greeting. There are tens of thousands of other profiles. Read a few. Read them all. Look at their steamy hardcore pictures. Keep an online folder of who you like. Look at their pictures…again. Then email them and watch the magic begin.
 
 Swinging 101

So now you're a newbie swinger… let's review how you got here. By now, not only have you really talked about it with your partner, you've agreed to mutual limits and can now start talking to other swingers hoping to find a match. As you can imagine, 3-way, 4-way, and more-way dating is about as intimidating as it gets, trying to get on the same sexual page with everybody at the same time. So when doing your profile on SwingersDateClub , make sure to pay special attention to the “fantasies” section. This is a good place to firm up what the two of you are looking for, and a GREAT place to find out what gets your neighbors really hot… it's also a great place to learn new and kinky twists to your sex life regardless of whether or not you've added any extra playmates.

So now it's time to get together on a real live date – maybe dinner and a movie? Maybe a small group of lovelies at a strip club? Maybe you're having your own little amateur striptease party, followed up by a dip in the hottub at your place? You set the pace, and your friends enjoy it with you, together.
 
 Swinger Travel

Once you enter the lifestyle, one thing you'll notice is that you can go on swinging vacations. And we're not talking about a double-decker bus tour through Little Rock guided by your grandmother and her bridge group, we're talking 5-star Caribbean All-inclusives with hundreds of swingers! From private nude beaches to sex anywhere, anytime, your next voyage to serenity will be the vacation that makes all others fade to black…

Did you know that SwingersDateClub has it's own travel agency? On the sister site, www.travelsdc.com , you can check out resorts everywhere the lifestyle has to offer.
Check out the two that have special offers for SDC members right now:
Hedonism II and III (Jamaica) : As if Jamaica wasn't alluring enough, this is the perfect destination to get your feet wet with the lifestyle. There's both a nude beach and a clothed beach – they call them the nude and prude sides. Toga parties… your own sailboats… nightclubs with glass-bottom hot tubs above them… take a trip like this and you'll have a private smile on standby forever…
Desire Resort and Spa (Cancun): Not to be outdone by the long-standing history of Hedonism resorts, you'll find this new and upscale resort nestled in the heart of Cancun's white sandy beaches… but what else will you find? How about on-premise sex, anywhere, anytime? Throughout the entire resort… and all-inclusive to boot! Or is that booty? No matter – you get it all.
Not only do you get amazing and substantial discounts to both of these posh resorts as a SwingersDateClub member, but the SwingersDateClub Travel Agency also arranges travel groups for SwingersDateClub members! So you'll be going with couples and single ladies from all over the country that you've already met, either online or in person.
 
 Swinger Club Listings
Think that swing clubs are only in big and glamorous cities like New York, Miami, and LA? Guess again – they're all over the country, in cities big and small. Is there one near you? Find out at SwingersDateClub 's Club Listings section www.swingersclublist.com .
Find the lifestyle club nearest you. Traveling? Find a club in your destination city. Complete with website links to the clubs' own pages, you're only two clicks from a virtual tour of every swing club in America.
Membership and door fees? BYOB? On premise? Got a hot tub? When are single men permitted? How about a bi-ladies night? It's a great way to learn the lifestyle lay of the land, and better yet, take a tour with your lady and plan a swinging weekend at your favorite swing club in the world.
 
 Couples Dating
So you've met a couple or a single bi-female that you and your spouse think is hot, and now you're ready to go out on a date… isn't that kind of weird? Where will we go? Are we supposed to talk about sex? What if they're crazy?

The answers to those four questions are 1) yes at first, 2) wherever you'd go on a regular date, 3) only if you like to, and 4) we're all a little crazy, so stop acting silly. It's just a date after all, and a potentially delicious one at that. Maybe dinner. Maybe dancing. Maybe a movie. Or straight to a bar for Tequila shooters and a game of 20 sexy questions. Get together and do whatever you want, it's your call.

Don't be afraid to talk about sex, but don't hawk on it either. The phrase “going with the flow” has never been more appropriate, just relax and do/say what comes naturally. Don't forget to be completely honest about what you're doing in the lifestyle, even if you're just curious. And don't be shy about asking about their experience in the lifestyle too. Swingers often refer to group chemistry as a “vibe”, and you'll hear it more and more. The vibe is an overall feeling of clicking with several couples and singles at once and when nurtured properly, can land you flesh-deep in erotic play for hours and hours… and hours more.
 
 Bisexual Females
They say that love makes the world go ‘round… well in the lifestyle, love has a name and thy name is single bisexual female. Almost everybody in the lifestyle is seeking a bisexual female, and most married and committed women in the lifestyle are bisexual or bi-curious.

Think about it: Straight men want women, by definition. The only thing they want more than a woman is two women… or three or four, but you get the idea. Well their wives, whomever they are, have had either bisexual experiences in the past or at least considered it a possibility for the future. So when you get right down to it, the fantasy for almost everyone in the lifestyle, male or female, is more experiences with women.

Single bi-females are also rare, as you can imagine. They're so few and far between, in fact, they have a nickname ~ unicorns. You know, like after the mythical creatures that everyone wants to believe in, but nobody's ever seen? Well bi-females aren't quite that rare, but they're more the exception than the rule. Why? Because bisexual women don't usually stay single for long, they usually and quickly become part of a swing couple.
 
 Swinger Chat
Anyone who's ever been online has been in a chat room… it's one of the things that made the internet so popular in the first place, right? Well at SwingersDateClub, we take chat to a whole new level. Place photos right in the chat room. Thumbnail photos of who's chatting. One click, and instantly you know who you're talking to, what they look like, and most importantly, what gets their motor running.
It's a great place to touch base and ride the vibe… we can't go out to clubs and parties all the time, right? The chat room is that virtual orgy that keeps that warm, erotic glow even when you can't go to an inviting house party or club.
But with all the delicious new friends you make by chatting (both for local play and for the traveling playcouple), you'll be at houses and steamy parties as often as you wish… you could even host your own.Learn to flirt again.

Are you a newbie looking to pick up the pace? Are you a seasoned player looking to de-virginize the newbies? Want some hot and sexy group chat? Want to learn everything you ever needed to know about a swing club before you go? Jump in the chat room before the weekend, and find some great connections, and then some more.

 
 Swinging Couples
The difference between dating and swinging is couples, plain as that. Are you a swinging couple? Well there's really only one way to find that out, but there are a few ways you can check out whether or not you might find orgies appealing (was there ever a question??). Simply ask yourself and your spouse some questions, and make sure you give yourselves honest answers – there will be a quiz on this later.

Is the lady of the house bisexual? Has she ever fantasized about being with a woman? With another man? With more than one sexual partner at the same time? Is either of you the jealous type? Possessive? Insecure?

Do you have a sex drive like the energizer bunny? Do you both? Do you like to whisper naughty things in each other's ear while you're in bed? Do you like the idea of only having sex with one person until you die? Does that idea sound like fun to anyone?

Swinging is not for everyone – one of the best things about SwingersDateClub is that you can set up a trial membership for free. You can add pictures and everything. Read the message boards, hear from the mouths of other swingers. Read other couples' profiles. Do these people sound like you? Does it feel like you've arrived home? Do you catch yourself reading a profile and saying “Honey, this pair I am looking at is AMAZING!”… and if not, simply let the free membership expire, and on you go with a little more knowledge than before… after all, isn't learning and broadening your horizons the whole point of living each day out loud?

 
 Types Of Swingers
As you'll quickly notice, there are many levels of swinger involvement. Whatever the craving, however, swingers almost always fall into a two broad groups, with some sub-groups within.
SOFT SWING : This is usually a couple's first few baby steps toward the lifestyle. Soft swingers themselves fall into three different categories themselves, and this is why communication is sooooo important when hooking up with a new couple for the first time. The three sub-groups play differently and when combined make up about 75% of the lifestyle's patrons:
1. SAME ROOM – This is when a committed couple is in the same room with another couple, having sex with their own spouse while another couple either does the same or watches. Same room soft swingers get aroused by the mere presence of another set of eyes… watching and being watched heightens their erotic pleasure which leads to much more explosive orgasms. They will, however, for the most part only play sexually with their own spouse. Even hardcore swingers (detailed below) usually start out in some sort of mild same-room scenario, and might spend years in this category before exploring further.
2. GIRL-GIRL ONLY – Two or more women play with each other in hot girl-girl action (just like the movies, and exactly like your fantasies), and their husbands either watch from the sidelines or participate only with their own wives. Most suited for this activity are bisexual women/bi-curious women and voyeuristic men.
3. SOFTCORE WIFE-SWAPPING – Women and men will switch sexual partners and play the day away, but there is no sexual intercourse. Activities include kissing, flirting, caressing, and oral sex. With this, there is still most often plenty of girl-girl action still going on, so the combinations are quite fun ?. Couples into softcore wife-swapping usually like the variety of new sexual partners, but prefer to save the intimacy of sex for each other.
FULL SWAP: Full swap has no real sub-groups and is quite straight forward ~ It is wife-swapping for fucking, plain and simple. It is completely hardcore, the ultimate in sexual adventure, and not for the possessive or jealous. This can also include women who like to have two or more men servicing them at once in a gang-bang (if you've never watched a woman do DP in person, you're really missing something), and can certainly include lots of girl-girl action. Full swap couples make up about 25% of all swingers, and if you ever find yourself in a full-swap encounter, leave your inhibitions at the door, strap-in, and get ready for a ride that you will never forget. While we all know that there's nothing like a new sex partner, the trade off is that another guy gets to fuck your wife. So do a head-check and find out if watching your wife screaming in ecstasy while she takes another man's cock to the hilt is on your list of fantasies.

In personal ads you'll find a great many people that say, “we're soft swing but will full-swap with the right couple”. This is totally normal, because swingers know that the night and its rules can change when the vibe changes… leaving your options open doesn't mean you can't change them back later, so remember to stay open-minded and enjoy yourself.

 
 The SwingersDateClub Advantage
There's many swingers sites out there ~ local, national, and worldwide. So why SwingersDateClub ?
We're a real community of real lifestylers, all over the country and the world. We literally “keep it real” by removing all the members that don't visit for a certain amount of time.
We share what we know with others. Our “Swingers' Talk” message board has over 3,000 different topics in its archives, all created by our members. Some subjects have the opinions of over 100 couples and singles, so you know you're learning – a lot.

We learn about each other. Each profile reads like an essay and you can post up to 48 uncensored pictures in your profile. So if you like being naughty for the camera, here's a chance to bring out your inner exhibitionist in a private, members-only setting.

We actually meet each other in person. In more and more cities, swingersdateclub.com meet-and-greets are exploding. In some cities, SwingersDateClub.com has their own company sponsored monthly parties at some of the very finest lifestyle nightclubs the country has ever seen.
We're real ~ we share ~ we learn ~ we meet… everything you've been looking for in an online personals club for adults, and you can get your 10-day trial membership today for free!
 
 Swinger Talk Message Board
Let's face it – when you're reading swingers ads and enjoying the juicy fantasies with your lover, you know that you're reading, well, a personal ad. Obviously the couple (or gal or guy) wants to put their best foot forward (or their breasts, or butts ?), so they took a lot of time and thought about how to best phrase things.

But what if you want to hear what swingers really think? What do they laugh about? Cry about? How do they let each other know about house parties? How do they sing about the orgy they had last night? The one tonight? Are there health issues? If you're traveling, how do you know where the un-local swingers go to party? Which club is that couple you've had your eye on going to tonight?

The answer is the “Swingers Talk” board, and it's as addictive as any drug you may have tried… there are THOUSANDS of topics on the board, ranging from swing etiquette to steamy stories to the best way to lick a woman until she screams. Find out what a lover's favorite toy is. Ever decided on moving in a mail-order-sex-slave nanny? That topic is on the board right now (turns out it's not that hard ~ sign me UP!) There are non-swinging issues as well – people talk about music, politics, current events, the law, and anything else you can think of. If you talk about it in life, they talk about it here.
Got a question? Ask it out loud – you'll get answers immediately from real swingers who know the deal, and have been where you are.

One of the sexiest sections of the message board is, “swing success.” It focuses on couples that have had a recent night of lusty sexual encounters and are now sharing with the rest of the community how the night came to be so much fun. There are few places on earth where learning can be so damn WILD!

 
  Swinger Dictionary  
The world of swinging has developed its own set of termonology over the years. This list should help you understand most of it.
Quick Reference Links
AC/DC  ADULT  ALL CULTURES  AMERICAN CULTURE  ANAL SEX  ANALINGUS  ANIMAL TRAINING  ARTS  B&D or B/D  BBW  BESTIALITY  BI  BI-CURIOUS  BIZARRE  BONDAGE  CAN ENTERTAIN  CAN TRAVEL  CANING  CHEATING  CLEAN  CLOSED DOOR  CLOSED SWINGING  CLOSET SWINGER  COUPLE  CPL  CUCKOLD  CULTURE  CUNNILINGUS  DILDO  DIRECTOR  DISCIPLINE  DISCREET OR DISCRETION  DOCILE  DOMESTIC TRAINING  DOMINANT  ENGLISH CULTURE  ENTERTAIN  EXHIBITIONIST  F  FELLATIO  FETISH  FLAGELLATION  FRENCH CULTURE  FUN AND GAMES  GAY  GBM  GENEROUS  GREEK CULTURE  GROUP ROOM  GROUP SEX  GWM  HARD CORE  HARD SWINGING  HEAD  HEDONIST  HETEROSEXUAL  HOMOSEXUAL  HORNY  HUNG  HWP  INDOOR  INDOOR SPORTS  INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP IRL  ISO  LEATHER  LESBIAN  LTR  MARITAL AIDS  MASOCHISM  MASTER/SLAVE  MATROOM  MEET FOR PLEASURE  MENAGE A' TROIS  MORESOMES  MBC  MBiC  MWC  NASCA  NEWCOMERS  NONSMOKER  OFF-PREMISE  OPEN DOOR  OPEN SWINGING  ORAL-GENITAL  ORGY  PARTY  PARTY CLOTHES  PARTY HOUSE  PASSIVE  PHOTO  PHOTOGRAPHY  P/P  PRO  RECREATIONAL SWINGER  RESTRAINT  ROMAN  ROMAN CULTURE  RUBBER  SADISM  SAFE  S.A.S.E.  SBF  SBiF  SBM  SGL  S&M or S/M  SINGLE  SOCIAL  SOCIAL SWING CLUB  SODOMY  SOFT SWINGERS  SOFT SWINGING  SRS  STD  STR or STR8  STRAIGHT  SUBMISSIVE  SWAPPING  SWEDISH CULTURE  SWF  SWING MAGAZINE  SWINGING  SWINGING LIFESTYLE  SWINGING MARRIAGE  SWM  TAN  THREESOME  TICKET  TOYS  TRANSSEXUAL  TRANSVESTITE  TRAVEL  TRIAD  TRIOLISM  TUBAL LIGATION  UTOPIAN SWINGER  VASECTOMY  VERSATILE  VIBRATOR  VOLUPTUOUS  VOYEUR  VOYEURISM  WAY-OUTS/WEIRDOS
  • AC/DC    top
    Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual.
  • ADULT    top
    Euphemism for pornographic.
  • ALL CULTURES    top
    Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)
  • AMERICAN CULTURE    top
    Man on top, the missionary position.
  • ANAL SEX    top
    Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture.
  • ANALINGUS    top
    Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.
  • ANIMAL TRAINING    top
    Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality
  • ARTS    top
    Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures
  • B&D or B/D    top
    Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
  • BBW    top
    Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their "ideal" weight, but are comfortable with the size that they are..
  • BESTIALITY     top
    (see ANIMAL TRAINING)
  • BI    top
    Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC)
  • BI-CURIOUS    top
    A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
  • BIZARRE    top
    Unusual sexual desires
  • BONDAGE    top
    A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
  • CAN ENTERTAIN    top
    Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
  • CAN TRAVEL    top
    Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
  • CANING    top
    A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
  • CHEATING    top
    Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent.
  • CLEAN    top
    Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases
  • CLOSED DOOR    top
    (see CLOSED SWINGING)
  • CLOSED SWINGING    top
    Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy.
  • CLOSET SWINGER    top
    A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)
  • COUPLE    top
    In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
  • CPL    top
    (see COUPLE)
  • CUCKOLD    top
    While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition.
  • CULTURE    top
    Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.
  • CUNNILINGUS    top
    Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE)
  • DILDO    top
    An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
  • DIRECTOR    top
    The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.
  • DISCIPLINE    top
    A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
  • DISCREET OR DISCRETION    top
    Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
  • DOCILE    top
    Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
  • DOMESTIC TRAINING    top
    Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
  • DOMINANT    top
    A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
  • ENGLISH CULTURE    top
    Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning
  • ENTERTAIN    top
    (see CAN ENTERTAIN)
  • EXHIBITIONIST    top
    Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.
  • F    top
    Female
  • FELLATIO    top
    Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
  • FETISH    top
    Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
  • FLAGELLATION    top
    Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
  • FRENCH CULTURE    top
    Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus)
  • FUN AND GAMES    top
    Euphemism for sexual activity.
  • GAY    top
    A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
  • GBM    top
    Gay Black Male
  • GENEROUS    top
    Refers to money for sex.
  • GREEK CULTURE    top
    Anal-penile intercourse
  • GROUP ROOM    top
    Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).
  • GROUP SEX    top
    Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
  • GWM    top
    Gay White Male
  • HARD CORE    top
    A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
  • HARD SWINGING    top
    (see HARD CORE)
  • HEAD    top
    Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture )
  • HEDONIST    top
    Someone who lives for pleasure.
  • HETEROSEXUAL    top
    Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
  • HOMOSEXUAL    top
    Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
  • HORNY    top
    Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
  • HUNG    top
    Refers to a man with a large penis.
  • HWP    top
    Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.
  • INDOOR    top
    Swinging activities in general
  • INDOOR SPORTS    top
    (See INDOOR)
  • INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP    top
    Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.
  • IRL    top
    In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat
  • ISO    top
    In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female
  • LEATHER    top
    A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments.
  • LESBIAN    top
    A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY)
  • LTR    top
    Long Term Relationship
  • MARITAL AIDS    top
    Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.
  • MASOCHISM    top
    Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
  • MASTER/SLAVE    top
    Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
  • MATROOM    top
    Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).
  • MEET FOR PLEASURE    top
    Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
  • MENAGE A' TROIS    top
    Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD)
  • MORESOMES    top
    More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX)
  • MBC    top
    Married Black Couple
  • MBiC    top
    Married Bisexual Couple
  • MWC    top
    Married White Couple
  • NASCA    top
    The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.
  • NEWCOMERS    top
    New people in swinging; First-timers.
  • NONSMOKER    top
    Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
  • OFF-PREMISE    top
    No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.
  • OPEN DOOR    top
    (see OPEN SWINGING)
  • OPEN SWINGING    top
    A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.
  • ORAL-GENITAL    top
    (see FRENCH CULTURE, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)
  • ORGY    top
    Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex.
  • PARTY    top
    Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
  • PARTY CLOTHES    top
    Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
  • PARTY HOUSE (Western US)    top
    A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
  • PASSIVE    top
    Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)
  • PHOTO    top
    Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
  • PHOTOGRAPHY    top
    Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
  • P/P    top
    Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
  • PRO    top
    Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
  • RECREATIONAL SWINGER    top
    A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment.
  • RESTRAINT    top
    Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
  • ROMAN    top
    Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE)
  • ROMAN CULTURE    top
    Sexual orgies
  • RUBBER    top
    Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
  • SADISM    top
    Sexual gratification through inflicting pain and humiliation on others.
  • SAFE    top
    Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile.
  • S.A.S.E.    top
    Self-addressed stamped envelope.
  • SBF    top
    Single Black Female
  • SBiF    top
    Single Bisexual Female
  • SBM    top
    Single Black Male
  • SGL    top
    (see SINGLE)
  • S&M or S/M    top
    Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).
  • SINGLE    top
    A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status.
  • SOCIAL    top
    A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
  • SOCIAL SWING CLUB    top
    A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
  • SODOMY    top
    Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.
  • SOFT SWINGERS    top
    Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.
  • SOFT SWINGING    top
    The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).
  • SRS    top
    Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).
  • STD    top
    Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.
  • STR or STR8    top
    (see STRAIGHT)
  • STRAIGHT    top
    Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.
  • SUBMISSIVE    top
    Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive)
  • SWAPPING    top
    Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
  • SWEDISH CULTURE    top
    Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another
  • SWF    top
    Single White Female
  • SWING MAGAZINE    top
    A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.
  • SWINGING    top
    An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.
  • SWINGING LIFESTYLE    top
    Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
  • SWINGING MARRIAGE    top
    Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
  • SWM    top
    Single White Male
  • TAN    top
    Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS)
  • THREESOME    top
    Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois)
  • TICKET    top
    A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
  • TOYS    top
    Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
  • TRANSSEXUAL    top
    Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion
  • TRANSVESTITE    top
    A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual.
  • TRAVEL    top
    (see CAN TRAVEL)
  • TRIAD    top
    Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
  • TRIOLISM    top
    Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD)
  • TUBAL LIGATION    top
    Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
  • UTOPIAN SWINGER    top
    A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
  • VASECTOMY    top
    Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
  • VERSATILE    top
    Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
  • VIBRATOR    top
    Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
  • VOLUPTUOUS    top
    Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
  • VOYEUR    top
    A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
  • VOYEURISM    top
    Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.
  • WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS    top
    Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional.
 
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